Ok BOys.....Tomorrow @ Spa Xcess 105 Carlton St. is our Pride Party Bathhouse NIte! Please come and support for you regulars, and if this is your first time or curious about it what is the Asian Bathhouse NIte? Contact us at 416-963-4300 Meza @ ext. 234. Richared # 235 or Daniel #236.
So see you there tomorrow! 8 pm till 11 pm.
Wednesday, June 30, 2010
Tuesday, June 8, 2010
Asian Bathhouse Event
PRIDE PARTY ASIAN NITE
Guys, tell all your friends about this special events on July 1st.
Check us out!
For 50% off locker to Spa Xcess that nite from 8pm
download this coupon and show it at the door.
Guys, tell all your friends about this special events on July 1st.
Check us out!
For 50% off locker to Spa Xcess that nite from 8pm
download this coupon and show it at the door.
Tuesday, June 1, 2010
Bathhouse Etiquette
to do whatever they want. A place to get sex 24/7, like a 24-hour convenience store. Come to think of it, the Baths are like a supermarket. You can shop for whatever you are into. You have Latinos, Twinks, Bears, Chubs, Asians, Blacks, whatever type of guy you are interested in, you will surely find in a Bathhouse. There is something for everyone at the baths, much more than in the bar or club scene. As you will read in my stories, I have seen some weird combinations at the baths over the years.
There are two myths about a Bathhouse. #1, only dirty old men go to the baths. #2, only gorgeous men get lucky at the baths. Neither is true. As I have mentioned at the beginning, there is something for everyone. Sometimes, men use the baths to try and find a type (Asian, Chub, Bear, etc.) they cannot find anywhere else.
The rules are very simple; a bathhouse is usually located in a side street or out of the way neighborhood. Most of the time, there is no sign on the door. You walk in and see a cashier located behind a protective window. On a wall will be a list of prices to purchase either a room or a locker. A room will give you privacy. If you get a locker, cheaper than a room, you have no place for privacy (in case you meet a cute guy!). Most places will give you the option of locking up your valuables (watch, wallet, jewelry) in their safe. Once you pay, the cashier will buzz you in and you open the door. The door will automatically shut behind you. There is no chance of strangers walking in by accident.
Depending on where you live, a membership maybe required upon entering a bathhouse. The reason? According to some state laws, a bathhouse can only operate as a private men's club, hence the need for every customer to have a membership. While some bathhouses may only need you to fill out some information on a card, other bathhouses may request Photo ID to be provided upon purchase of a membership. If you are closeted or married, there is no need to worry about having your personal information leaked, or having your identity stolen.
Bathhouses need customers to be profitable. How would they be able to keep customers if they leak personal information? Trust me, bathhouses are very discreet when it comes to keeping membership information confidential, so you have nothing to worry about. The good news is that memberships may also give the customer special deals or huge discounts, if he plans on making multiple visits to the baths. After years of going to my friendly bathhouse I have recently purchased a membership, to save money since I go three times a week. In short, every bathhouse does not requires a membership, but be prepared if your local bathhouse does.
Once you get in, you take off all your clothes, place the towel around your waist, and then go cruise. You should take a shower before you cruise. That way you are nice and fresh for whomever you encounter. Then after the deed is done, take a shower afterwards. This way you can re-fresh yourself for the next guy you find. For some, it is not uncommon to take three to five showers in one visit! That is how many times some guy's gets lucky at the baths. Now some men are quite paranoid about foot fungus, so they bring slippers or sandals (Read Accessories to learn more about what to wear at a Bathhouse).
A bathhouse consists of dozens rooms, all lined up among a maze of hallways. You spend most of your time walking the halls looking for a score. Everyone knows why each other are there. Men are lying in their rooms seeing what passes by them. Or they are standing in the hallways or lounging around seeing what is walking about. Everybody is cruising everybody. There is even a bulletin board for people to advertise themselves. For example: "Room 218, submissive bottom, shoot your load inside me." The board has dozens of messages like that.
Most places will have a sauna and/or steam room. Some even have a whirlpool or an outdoor or indoor pool. There are showers to clean up, and porno rooms to pass the time. Condom are available free of charge (usually located at the front desk) but lube is going to cost you. Every bathhouse has some sort of snack bar and a pay phone. In addition there is a lounge area, where you can sit and read the gay magazines (Advocate, Genre, etc.) or watch television.
Basically, you will know if someone likes you. You make eye contact. If he makes eye contact and you make eye contact, well you know what will happen next. Some guy's will not make eye contact, and even look away. You cannot take it personally. That is the biggest rule at the baths (although it is still hard for me to digest). Sometimes touching is a good communication tool. If you see someone across the room, you may want to stroke your dick, play with your nipples or even wet your lips with you tongue. If you are sitting near someone, you may want to try playing footsies or reaching over and pinching his nipple. If you are passing by someone in the hallway, you may want to have your hand brush against him. Some of the older guy's will actually be bold enough and grab a guy ' s crotch! If he turns or pushes you away, just smile and walk away. Do not prolong the agony of trying to create something that is not going to happen. He is not interested.
If someone approaches you that are not up to your standards, be gentle in turning him down. Remember how you would want to be treated, as we have all been shot down at one time or another. I usually say, "I am just walking around, getting a feel for the place." Or if you want to be direct say, "I am not interested." Do not say, "Get out of my face". That is rude. Although you will encounter some guys who will say that. If someone turns you down, accept it gracefully and move on. Do not stalk the person and hang around outside his room. It makes him uncomfortable and makes you look like a fool. Believe me, everybody is observing everyone. By stalking someone who has no interest in you, you may be missing out on someone else.
Souce: http://bathhouseblues.com
There are two myths about a Bathhouse. #1, only dirty old men go to the baths. #2, only gorgeous men get lucky at the baths. Neither is true. As I have mentioned at the beginning, there is something for everyone. Sometimes, men use the baths to try and find a type (Asian, Chub, Bear, etc.) they cannot find anywhere else.
The rules are very simple; a bathhouse is usually located in a side street or out of the way neighborhood. Most of the time, there is no sign on the door. You walk in and see a cashier located behind a protective window. On a wall will be a list of prices to purchase either a room or a locker. A room will give you privacy. If you get a locker, cheaper than a room, you have no place for privacy (in case you meet a cute guy!). Most places will give you the option of locking up your valuables (watch, wallet, jewelry) in their safe. Once you pay, the cashier will buzz you in and you open the door. The door will automatically shut behind you. There is no chance of strangers walking in by accident.
Depending on where you live, a membership maybe required upon entering a bathhouse. The reason? According to some state laws, a bathhouse can only operate as a private men's club, hence the need for every customer to have a membership. While some bathhouses may only need you to fill out some information on a card, other bathhouses may request Photo ID to be provided upon purchase of a membership. If you are closeted or married, there is no need to worry about having your personal information leaked, or having your identity stolen.
Bathhouses need customers to be profitable. How would they be able to keep customers if they leak personal information? Trust me, bathhouses are very discreet when it comes to keeping membership information confidential, so you have nothing to worry about. The good news is that memberships may also give the customer special deals or huge discounts, if he plans on making multiple visits to the baths. After years of going to my friendly bathhouse I have recently purchased a membership, to save money since I go three times a week. In short, every bathhouse does not requires a membership, but be prepared if your local bathhouse does.
Once you get in, you take off all your clothes, place the towel around your waist, and then go cruise. You should take a shower before you cruise. That way you are nice and fresh for whomever you encounter. Then after the deed is done, take a shower afterwards. This way you can re-fresh yourself for the next guy you find. For some, it is not uncommon to take three to five showers in one visit! That is how many times some guy's gets lucky at the baths. Now some men are quite paranoid about foot fungus, so they bring slippers or sandals (Read Accessories to learn more about what to wear at a Bathhouse).
A bathhouse consists of dozens rooms, all lined up among a maze of hallways. You spend most of your time walking the halls looking for a score. Everyone knows why each other are there. Men are lying in their rooms seeing what passes by them. Or they are standing in the hallways or lounging around seeing what is walking about. Everybody is cruising everybody. There is even a bulletin board for people to advertise themselves. For example: "Room 218, submissive bottom, shoot your load inside me." The board has dozens of messages like that.
Most places will have a sauna and/or steam room. Some even have a whirlpool or an outdoor or indoor pool. There are showers to clean up, and porno rooms to pass the time. Condom are available free of charge (usually located at the front desk) but lube is going to cost you. Every bathhouse has some sort of snack bar and a pay phone. In addition there is a lounge area, where you can sit and read the gay magazines (Advocate, Genre, etc.) or watch television.
Basically, you will know if someone likes you. You make eye contact. If he makes eye contact and you make eye contact, well you know what will happen next. Some guy's will not make eye contact, and even look away. You cannot take it personally. That is the biggest rule at the baths (although it is still hard for me to digest). Sometimes touching is a good communication tool. If you see someone across the room, you may want to stroke your dick, play with your nipples or even wet your lips with you tongue. If you are sitting near someone, you may want to try playing footsies or reaching over and pinching his nipple. If you are passing by someone in the hallway, you may want to have your hand brush against him. Some of the older guy's will actually be bold enough and grab a guy ' s crotch! If he turns or pushes you away, just smile and walk away. Do not prolong the agony of trying to create something that is not going to happen. He is not interested.
If someone approaches you that are not up to your standards, be gentle in turning him down. Remember how you would want to be treated, as we have all been shot down at one time or another. I usually say, "I am just walking around, getting a feel for the place." Or if you want to be direct say, "I am not interested." Do not say, "Get out of my face". That is rude. Although you will encounter some guys who will say that. If someone turns you down, accept it gracefully and move on. Do not stalk the person and hang around outside his room. It makes him uncomfortable and makes you look like a fool. Believe me, everybody is observing everyone. By stalking someone who has no interest in you, you may be missing out on someone else.
Souce: http://bathhouseblues.com
BKK Hot Spot
Chakran - Bathhouse in Thailand for Asian men.
Babylon's main competition, Chakran is known for its luxurious interior and well-equipped multi-story sauna complex with indoor pool, jacuzzi, spa and steam room, gym, mini theatre, café, cruising corridors, karaoke areas and other facilities. Particularly popular with Thais and Asian tourists. Admission is 230 baht Monday to Thursday, 250 baht Friday to Sunday.
Babylon's main competition, Chakran is known for its luxurious interior and well-equipped multi-story sauna complex with indoor pool, jacuzzi, spa and steam room, gym, mini theatre, café, cruising corridors, karaoke areas and other facilities. Particularly popular with Thais and Asian tourists. Admission is 230 baht Monday to Thursday, 250 baht Friday to Sunday.
Thursday, May 27, 2010
Thinking of Renting?
We don't know if the guy is looking for a long stable roommate to help pays for the bills or someone he can sneak into their room at nite for a quick fix? Hmmm " Bottom beware" ... tempting but some of us like our sleep and the comfort of freedom.
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I am an Asian top seek a roommate. I am chinese + japanese mixed. Attached herewith my pictures - smile, eyes body and cock. I prefer top roommate because I am an active top. I don't want end up taking advantage to fucking you. Feel bad if I do so. For a top roommate, at least you are safe to live with me. I attached my cock's picture is to warn bottom guys, how can you control your emotion with my juicy and strong cock? For your safety reason, I would think you will be in your best interest not sharing a room with me.
I am doing my CGA - Certified General Accountants program. Almost completed Level 3. I don't smoke and take drug. Social drinker. I expect the same. You can take guy back to fuck even with my present, I don't mind. Expect the same.
I welcome anyone to apply with your picture, information and stats. International students are welcome. Age and race are not the issue include sexual orientation.
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I am an Asian top seek a roommate. I am chinese + japanese mixed. Attached herewith my pictures - smile, eyes body and cock. I prefer top roommate because I am an active top. I don't want end up taking advantage to fucking you. Feel bad if I do so. For a top roommate, at least you are safe to live with me. I attached my cock's picture is to warn bottom guys, how can you control your emotion with my juicy and strong cock? For your safety reason, I would think you will be in your best interest not sharing a room with me.
I am doing my CGA - Certified General Accountants program. Almost completed Level 3. I don't smoke and take drug. Social drinker. I expect the same. You can take guy back to fuck even with my present, I don't mind. Expect the same.
I welcome anyone to apply with your picture, information and stats. International students are welcome. Age and race are not the issue include sexual orientation.
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
Craigslist 's crimes
Cruising on the internet can be fun, exciting and..... did we mention unsafe? here are some of the top 5 crimes that was reported.
California cops recently snagged Angel Pena Ayala, a 24-year-old felon who used Craigslist to rob gay victims at gunpoint. And it reminded us that Craigslist's M4M section is not only a good place for "RAW BB BTTMS ISO GROUP LOADZ." It's also a nifty place for murderers, child rapists, celebrity fakes and pranksters looking to embarrass their straight co-workers. Doing away with "erotic services" hasn't stopped Craigslist criminals. Here are five recent heinous homo CL stories — modern day fables to give you digital masturbators some friendly advice.
1. THE STABBING SATANIST
California cops recently snagged Angel Pena Ayala, a 24-year-old felon who used Craigslist to rob gay victims at gunpoint. And it reminded us that Craigslist's M4M section is not only a good place for "RAW BB BTTMS ISO GROUP LOADZ." It's also a nifty place for murderers, child rapists, celebrity fakes and pranksters looking to embarrass their straight co-workers. Doing away with "erotic services" hasn't stopped Craigslist criminals. Here are five recent heinous homo CL stories — modern day fables to give you digital masturbators some friendly advice.
1. THE STABBING SATANIST
WTF HAPPENED?: When WABC Radio Reporter George Weber posted an ad looking for "violent sex", he met Satanic 16-year-old knife fetishist John Katehis. Weber wanted to pay Katehis $60 to smother him with a pillow. But instead, Katehis tied Weber's ankles with duct tape and stabbed Weber 50 times in the neck and body.
LESSONS LEARNED: If Weber had checked out Katehis' MySpace page before inviting him over, he might have seen his creepy-ass knife collection and friendly warning, "If you disrespect me then I will fucking break your neck."
And remember, statuatory rape laws exist for the good of both children and adults. Sixteen-year-olds make horrible lovers, under any circumstances.
2. THE CRAWFORD FAKE
WTF HAPPENED?: Apparently Gossip Girl star Chace Crawford likes to work out at the gayest gym in all of New York (Equinox in the Meatpacking District). Some of his gym mates have even reported seeing him in the steamroom during the cruisiest hours. Not that that makes him gay (it might just mean he's vain). But it certainly doesn't help his gay rumors much.
After one of his Tuesday night workouts, someone pretend to be Chace and posted this message on Craigslist's "M4M Missed Connections":
You were lifting in a black tank top and black Adidas pants. I was wearing a gray tee with a green cap. I'm not sure if you were working out with your boyfriend or if he was just a friend – either way, you're a stud. I'm a fairly recognizable actor, so I didn't want to approach you on the gym floor – but now I find myself wishing that I had waited around for you in the locker room – or something.
Msg me if you see this – hope to see you again.
But an Equinox employee expressed serious doubt that the gray-teed, green-capped Chace was "bold and stupid enough to out himself on Craigslist." He said, "That is an act saved for VGL bros who want to get some beers and see what happens, their GFs being OOT and all."
LESSONS LEARNED: Closeted celebrities are more likely to pluck a boy from their own personal orchard rather than get blown in a steamroom or cruise for free ass online. Also, the Missed Connections section of Craigslist is one of the saddest places in all of cyberspace.
3. THE MALIGNED MED STUDENT
WTF HAPPENED?: Daniel P. Heeren, a 24-year-old med student from Albany, wanted to fuck a teenage boy. So he posted a Craigslist ad and drove to Panera Bread to nibble on his nubile nude. But instead of finding a teenage boy, Heeren found a police officer who arrested him and confiscated his sex toy, lubricant and condoms.
LESSONS LEARNED: Always use the "half your age plus seven" rule when deciding whether to fuck someone younger than yourself. Also, using Craigslist to find boy snatch is about as smart as calling 911 to buy coke. That medical textbook might be boring, but it's an infinitely better place to stick your nose.
4. MILKING THE COW
WTF HAPPENED?: As a prank, several dairy workers in Southern California placed an anonymous gay sex ad on Craigslist's "Casual Encounters" section along with their straight, married co-worker's home phone number. The ad read:
"seeking a hot stud for first timer… recently divorced from my wife, have come to terms with my homo sexuality [sic], and need someone to teach me the right way, and be gentle at the same time, age, race not important…"
Over the next two days, the married man got a bunch of phone calls from pervy guys who "asked for sex and made highly offensive and graphic sexual comments and invitations." The man sued the dairy where he worked and Craigslist. No word yet on his success.
LESSONS LEARNED: Try not to work in a place staffed by douchebags. At least you know how to celebrate your frienemy's birthday this year.
5. THE CRAIGSLIST KILLER
WTF HAPPENED?: Another Albany med student (what's wrong with that place?) 22-year-old Philip Markoff used Craigslist to lure sex workers to their death. "The Craigslist Killer" shot a 26-year-old masseuse to death, robbed an exotic dancer, and held up a Las Vegas hooker—he even went after transexuals. Police eventually arrested him after linking him to three crime scenes via video footage.
LESSONS LEARNED: CYA if you're an online sex worker. Condoms will only keep you so safe. Perhaps you'd prefer a career at Starbucks? They have health insurance.
Source: www.queerty.com
Thursday, April 8, 2010
Asian Bathhouse Night
Asian Bathhouse Night is EVERY THIRD THURSDAY at Spa Excess 105 Carlton Street!
Join us at the next Asian Bathhouse Night on the 15th April at Spa Excess 8 - 11pm. We are going to have fun interactive workshops on sex and sexual health!
Join us at the next Asian Bathhouse Night on the 15th April at Spa Excess 8 - 11pm. We are going to have fun interactive workshops on sex and sexual health!
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