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Bathhouse Etiquette

to do whatever they want. A place to get sex 24/7, like a 24-hour convenience store. Come to think of it, the Baths are like a supermarket. You can shop for whatever you are into. You have Latinos, Twinks, Bears, Chubs, Asians, Blacks, whatever type of guy you are interested in, you will surely find in a Bathhouse. There is something for everyone at the baths, much more than in the bar or club scene. As you will read in my stories, I have seen some weird combinations at the baths over the years.

There are two myths about a Bathhouse. #1, only dirty old men go to the baths. #2, only gorgeous men get lucky at the baths. Neither is true. As I have mentioned at the beginning, there is something for everyone. Sometimes, men use the baths to try and find a type (Asian, Chub, Bear, etc.) they cannot find anywhere else.

The rules are very simple; a bathhouse is usually located in a side street or out of the way neighborhood. Most of the time, there is no sign on the door. You walk in and see a cashier located behind a protective window. On a wall will be a list of prices to purchase either a room or a locker. A room will give you privacy. If you get a locker, cheaper than a room, you have no place for privacy (in case you meet a cute guy!). Most places will give you the option of locking up your valuables (watch, wallet, jewelry) in their safe. Once you pay, the cashier will buzz you in and you open the door. The door will automatically shut behind you. There is no chance of strangers walking in by accident.

Depending on where you live, a membership maybe required upon entering a bathhouse. The reason? According to some state laws, a bathhouse can only operate as a private men's club, hence the need for every customer to have a membership. While some bathhouses may only need you to fill out some information on a card, other bathhouses may request Photo ID to be provided upon purchase of a membership. If you are closeted or married, there is no need to worry about having your personal information leaked, or having your identity stolen.

Bathhouses need customers to be profitable. How would they be able to keep customers if they leak personal information? Trust me, bathhouses are very discreet when it comes to keeping membership information confidential, so you have nothing to worry about. The good news is that memberships may also give the customer special deals or huge discounts, if he plans on making multiple visits to the baths. After years of going to my friendly bathhouse I have recently purchased a membership, to save money since I go three times a week. In short, every bathhouse does not requires a membership, but be prepared if your local bathhouse does.

Once you get in, you take off all your clothes, place the towel around your waist, and then go cruise. You should take a shower before you cruise. That way you are nice and fresh for whomever you encounter. Then after the deed is done, take a shower afterwards. This way you can re-fresh yourself for the next guy you find. For some, it is not uncommon to take three to five showers in one visit! That is how many times some guy's gets lucky at the baths. Now some men are quite paranoid about foot fungus, so they bring slippers or sandals (Read Accessories to learn more about what to wear at a Bathhouse).

A bathhouse consists of dozens rooms, all lined up among a maze of hallways. You spend most of your time walking the halls looking for a score. Everyone knows why each other are there. Men are lying in their rooms seeing what passes by them. Or they are standing in the hallways or lounging around seeing what is walking about. Everybody is cruising everybody. There is even a bulletin board for people to advertise themselves. For example: "Room 218, submissive bottom, shoot your load inside me." The board has dozens of messages like that.

Most places will have a sauna and/or steam room. Some even have a whirlpool or an outdoor or indoor pool. There are showers to clean up, and porno rooms to pass the time. Condom are available free of charge (usually located at the front desk) but lube is going to cost you. Every bathhouse has some sort of snack bar and a pay phone. In addition there is a lounge area, where you can sit and read the gay magazines (Advocate, Genre, etc.) or watch television.

Basically, you will know if someone likes you. You make eye contact. If he makes eye contact and you make eye contact, well you know what will happen next. Some guy's will not make eye contact, and even look away. You cannot take it personally. That is the biggest rule at the baths (although it is still hard for me to digest). Sometimes touching is a good communication tool. If you see someone across the room, you may want to stroke your dick, play with your nipples or even wet your lips with you tongue. If you are sitting near someone, you may want to try playing footsies or reaching over and pinching his nipple. If you are passing by someone in the hallway, you may want to have your hand brush against him. Some of the older guy's will actually be bold enough and grab a guy ' s crotch! If he turns or pushes you away, just smile and walk away. Do not prolong the agony of trying to create something that is not going to happen. He is not interested.

If someone approaches you that are not up to your standards, be gentle in turning him down. Remember how you would want to be treated, as we have all been shot down at one time or another. I usually say, "I am just walking around, getting a feel for the place." Or if you want to be direct say, "I am not interested." Do not say, "Get out of my face". That is rude. Although you will encounter some guys who will say that. If someone turns you down, accept it gracefully and move on. Do not stalk the person and hang around outside his room. It makes him uncomfortable and makes you look like a fool. Believe me, everybody is observing everyone. By stalking someone who has no interest in you, you may be missing out on someone else.

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BKK Hot Spot

Chakran - Bathhouse in Thailand for Asian men.

Babylon's main competition, Chakran is known for its luxurious interior and well-equipped multi-story sauna complex with indoor pool, jacuzzi, spa and steam room, gym, mini theatre, café, cruising corridors, karaoke areas and other facilities. Particularly popular with Thais and Asian tourists. Admission is 230 baht Monday to Thursday, 250 baht Friday to Sunday.

Thinking of Renting?

We don't know if the guy is looking for a long stable roommate to help pays for the bills or someone he can sneak into their room at nite for a quick fix? Hmmm " Bottom beware" ... tempting but some of us like our sleep and the comfort of freedom.
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I am an Asian top seek a roommate. I am chinese + japanese mixed. Attached herewith my pictures - smile, eyes body and cock. I prefer top roommate because I am an active top. I don't want end up taking advantage to fucking you. Feel bad if I do so. For a top roommate, at least you are safe to live with me. I attached my cock's picture is to warn bottom guys, how can you control your emotion with my juicy and strong cock? For your safety reason, I would think you will be in your best interest not sharing a room with me.

I am doing my CGA - Certified General Accountants program. Almost completed Level 3. I don't smoke and take drug. Social drinker. I expect the same. You can take guy back to fuck even with my present, I don't mind. Expect the same.

I welcome anyone to apply with your picture, information and stats. International students are welcome. Age and race are not the issue include sexual orientation.

Craigslist 's crimes

Cruising on the internet can be fun, exciting and..... did we mention unsafe? here are some of the top 5 crimes that was reported.

California cops recently snagged Angel Pena Ayala, a 24-year-old felon who used Craigslist to rob gay victims at gunpoint. And it reminded us that Craigslist's M4M section is not only a good place for "RAW BB BTTMS ISO GROUP LOADZ." It's also a nifty place for murderers, child rapists, celebrity fakes and pranksters looking to embarrass their straight co-workers. Doing away with "erotic services" hasn't stopped Craigslist criminals. Here are five recent heinous homo CL stories — modern day fables to give you digital masturbators some friendly advice.

1. THE STABBING SATANIST

WTF HAPPENED?: When WABC Radio Reporter George Weber posted an ad looking for "violent sex", he met Satanic 16-year-old knife fetishist John Katehis. Weber wanted to pay Katehis $60 to smother him with a pillow. But instead, Katehis tied Weber's ankles with duct tape and stabbed Weber 50 times in the neck and body.

LESSONS LEARNED: If Weber had checked out Katehis' MySpace page before inviting him over, he might have seen his creepy-ass knife collection and friendly warning, "If you disrespect me then I will fucking break your neck."

And remember, statuatory rape laws exist for the good of both children and adults. Sixteen-year-olds make horrible lovers, under any circumstances.

2. THE CRAWFORD FAKE

WTF HAPPENED?: Apparently Gossip Girl star Chace Crawford likes to work out at the gayest gym in all of New York (Equinox in the Meatpacking District). Some of his gym mates have even reported seeing him in the steamroom during the cruisiest hours. Not that that makes him gay (it might just mean he's vain). But it certainly doesn't help his gay rumors much.

After one of his Tuesday night workouts, someone pretend to be Chace and posted this message on Craigslist's "M4M Missed Connections":

You were lifting in a black tank top and black Adidas pants. I was wearing a gray tee with a green cap. I'm not sure if you were working out with your boyfriend or if he was just a friend – either way, you're a stud. I'm a fairly recognizable actor, so I didn't want to approach you on the gym floor – but now I find myself wishing that I had waited around for you in the locker room – or something.

Msg me if you see this – hope to see you again.

But an Equinox employee expressed serious doubt that the gray-teed, green-capped Chace was "bold and stupid enough to out himself on Craigslist." He said, "That is an act saved for VGL bros who want to get some beers and see what happens, their GFs being OOT and all."

LESSONS LEARNED: Closeted celebrities are more likely to pluck a boy from their own personal orchard rather than get blown in a steamroom or cruise for free ass online. Also, the Missed Connections section of Craigslist is one of the saddest places in all of cyberspace.

3. THE MALIGNED MED STUDENT

WTF HAPPENED?: Daniel P. Heeren, a 24-year-old med student from Albany, wanted to fuck a teenage boy. So he posted a Craigslist ad and drove to Panera Bread to nibble on his nubile nude. But instead of finding a teenage boy, Heeren found a police officer who arrested him and confiscated his sex toy, lubricant and condoms.

LESSONS LEARNED: Always use the "half your age plus seven" rule when deciding whether to fuck someone younger than yourself. Also, using Craigslist to find boy snatch is about as smart as calling 911 to buy coke. That medical textbook might be boring, but it's an infinitely better place to stick your nose.

4. MILKING THE COW

WTF HAPPENED?: As a prank, several dairy workers in Southern California placed an anonymous gay sex ad on Craigslist's "Casual Encounters" section along with their straight, married co-worker's home phone number. The ad read:

"seeking a hot stud for first timer… recently divorced from my wife, have come to terms with my homo sexuality [sic], and need someone to teach me the right way, and be gentle at the same time, age, race not important…"

Over the next two days, the married man got a bunch of phone calls from pervy guys who "asked for sex and made highly offensive and graphic sexual comments and invitations." The man sued the dairy where he worked and Craigslist. No word yet on his success.

LESSONS LEARNED: Try not to work in a place staffed by douchebags. At least you know how to celebrate your frienemy's birthday this year.

5. THE CRAIGSLIST KILLER

WTF HAPPENED?: Another Albany med student (what's wrong with that place?) 22-year-old Philip Markoff used Craigslist to lure sex workers to their death. "The Craigslist Killer" shot a 26-year-old masseuse to death, robbed an exotic dancer, and held up a Las Vegas hooker—he even went after transexuals. Police eventually arrested him after linking him to three crime scenes via video footage.

LESSONS LEARNED: CYA if you're an online sex worker. Condoms will only keep you so safe. Perhaps you'd prefer a career at Starbucks? They have health insurance.

Source: www.queerty.com

Asian Bathhouse Night

Asian Bathhouse Night is EVERY THIRD THURSDAY at Spa Excess 105 Carlton Street!

Join us at the next Asian Bathhouse Night on the 15th April at Spa Excess 8 - 11pm. We are going to have fun interactive workshops on sex and sexual health!

A Threesome with a couple?

Did you ever encounter a couple who goes to the bathhouse together and notice that they are seeking a third?

Did you ever wonder what it would be like to have a threesome with a couple? Or you have been invited to join a threesome by a couple?

Well, if you are thinking to get involve in such activity and wants to know how to do it 'right', read this fun and entertaining article below by Alvin Tan from Fridae.com


Threesome with a twosome

by Alvin Tan

Fridae's resident expert on outrageous sexual behavior, Alvin Tan, explores the issue of sex with a couple and offers some rules of conduct when engaging in a threesome with a twosome.

Just last weekend, I was posing at the local gay bar with my eyes straining ever so wide to achieve that virginal look - when I found myself at the receiving end of an indecent proposal.
While anyone would think that a flawless goddess such as myself would have long been used to free offers of gratuitous sex from attractive gay men, I was nonetheless rendered speechless on this occasion (no, I was not choking on an ice cube).

The reason is simple. For the first time in my limited homo sexperience (just in case my partner is reading this), I was invited to have sex with a couple (cue winsome blush on my chiseled cheeks).

With "open" relationships between gay men getting increasingly commonplace these days, you never know when you'll find yourself invited - like yours truly - to a menage-a-trois (French for threesome for the less linguistically gifted amongst Fridae's readers).

As the fresh piece of meat in an otherwise "stale" relationship, you'll be regarded with the interest and fascination usually reserved for the re-appearance of the Dodo bird. In most cases, you may even find yourself treated like visiting royalty and having your every sexual whims and fancies attentively attended to.

Although sex with a couple entails more bodies, more heat and more excitement, a sexual liaison with a couple can also prove to be extremely hazardous to one's self-esteem, health and reputation.

So unless you're into double trouble or enjoy being on the receiving end of a tag-team effort to boot you out of the house (or worse, the gay community), you would do well to bear in mind Fridae's Five Commandments - before, when and after having sex with a gay couple.

Commandment No. 1: No Playing Favourites
It's inevitable. You're going to be more attracted to one of the guys than the other. But unfortunately, you can't play favourites. Still if you're the homo-equivalent of the Oscar winning Meryl Streep and can convincingly feign equal interest, then this would not pose a problem and you can skip to Commandment Number Two. But if you lack the formidable acting prowess of the divine Ms Streep, then it's best to keep both your eyes closed. That way, you won't know who you are deep-throating or whose mouth is having a go at your boner with the suction power of an industrial strength vacuum cleaner and better yet, you'll be way past caring.

Commandment No. 2: No Sleepover Unless
As a general rule, you should never sleep over at the couple's "Den of Perpetual Lust" if you're not invited - no matter how weak your knees are or how utterly exhausted you are. This is pure commonsense since you never know the kind of drama that might erupt the morning after. Trust me, you don't want to be running out butt naked into the streets clutching your clothes while the couple bicker and fight like Alexis Colby and Krystle Carrington on Dynasty.

However, if they do ask you to stay and you're quite sure you want to, do not, I repeat, do not conveniently position yourself between the couple and start snoring away - let them decide who sleeps where. Being a courteous cocksman with impeccable bedside manners will definitely earn you a return invite.

Commandment No. 3: Start Multitasking
Time to earn your Ms Versatility Title honey! If you think sex with a single guy is a lot of work, imagine sex with two guys. With three pairs of hands, three pairs of lips, three throbbing appendages and three gaping butts, you would do well to prepare yourself for lots of manual, oral and anal action - often all at the same time.

Unless you can multitask effectively, you may find yourself overwhelmed and labeled an inadequate lover. And if that leaks out to the gay grapevine, you might never be able to date again without an appearance on Extreme Makeover. So in the event if your hands, mouth and butt are otherwise engaged, put your imagination to good use and start experimenting with your nostril(s), armpit(s) and toe(s).

Commandment No. 4: Don't Expect LTR
For the last time, sex is sex - especially if it's sex with a couple. So don't even entertain the possibility of a Long Term Relationship with one or both of the aforementioned couple. First of all, an invitation to sex with a couple does not mean that they are looking for a permanent three-way arrangement. If you allow yourself to fall in love with either or both of them and your affections are not reciprocated, then you'll be no better than a "Cling-On" with Velcro-like abilities.

Secondly, even if they are willing to make the arrangement long-term, you'll be labeled as the home-breaking whore should anything untoward happen to their relationship - even if it's not your fault. Finally, you might find yourself competing for the affections of one of them with the other partner and things might just turn ugly. Trust me, it's not worth the effort as well as the mental and emotional anguish.

Commandment No. 5: Never Get Jealous
It's possible that the couple may be getting off on each other so intensely that they'll forget you're even in the room. If you find yourself getting left out or neglected (you poor thing!), you should never get jealous - after all, you're the third party here. Keep your cool and try to work your way into the action.

Conversely, you may have to deal with the situation where one partner does a Hulk and turns into the green-eyed monster because you or the other partner paid too much attention to each other. If such an unfortunate situation should ever arise, you may wish to pacify the jealous partner by drawing him back into the action (at least you'll earn his gratitude) or if the scene turns ugly, be ever so prepared to do a flash and run for the nearest exit.

With that, you're now ready for your tumble in the twin-sized sack.

Editor's Note: Fridae is NOT responsible for the outcomes, usually tragic, of gay readers who follow Alvin Tan's outrageous instructions to the T).