Tuesday, December 21, 2010

SX Asian Night - m4m - 28 (SX)

Someone is looking for you----

We spent most of the time in your room together, too bad that I didn't get your name, I would like to meet you again.

You: White, short blond hair, you said it's your third time being there.
Me: Asian, tall, slim to tone body

When we left your room, someone said something to you on the hall way, tell me what they said to you so that I know it's you.

Wednesday, November 24, 2010

Syphilis on the rise in Toronto

Yes Folks! Syphilis is still here. what can we or YOU do?

please read...

In Toronto, we are seeing more cases of syphilis in men having sex with men (MSM). The same thing has happened in Vancouver and Ottawa. According to the AIDS Committee of Toronto, Toronto saw 31 cases in 2001, 195 cases in 2002, 326 cases in 2003 and 300 cases by mid-November 2004.

How do I know if I have it?

You may notice a painless sore on your penis or near your anus (bum). The sore will go away by itself. Many people do not notice the sore because it is painless. You probably wouldn’t notice one in your throat, but you could get it there, too, from unprotected oral sex.

This first sign of syphilis will show up about three weeks after you have sex with someone who has it. Four to 10 weeks later, you may notice a rash on your body, palms and soles of your feet. The rash will also go away on its own.

The late stage of syphilis usually happens 10 to 20 years later. It can occur much earlier if you also have HIV. Late stage syphilis can cause serious heart, brain and bone disease.

Can you cure it?

Yes. Syphilis can be easily treated and cured with antibiotics.

How can I get tested?

Your doctor can order a blood test for syphilis; or you can go to a sexual health clinic.

How can I protect myself?

As usual, the best protection for you and your partner(s) is using a latex condom every time you have oral, anal or vaginal sex. Consider getting tested for syphilis if you think you may be at risk

If someone you had sex with within the last three months tells you they have syphilis, get tested. Even if the test is negative, you should be treated with antibiotics. The test results will help the doctor make any other decisions about your treatment.

Where to get tested?

www.hasslefreeclinic.org

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Thursday, November 4, 2010

Christmas at the Baths - By Bathhouse Blue

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Wednesday, October 13, 2010

Next Asian Bathhouse Event!








Location: SPA EXCESS (105 Carlton Street)

Date: Thursday, Oct 21
Time: 8:00pm - 11:00am

Welcome to Asian Bathhouse Night at Spa Excess!

Join us for BDSM & FETISH Asian night at Spa Excess.
Wear something kinky and let's have a great night.

Fun games & workshops
Free condoms & lube
On-site testing
Sea Salt Scrub
50/50 Raffle
Asian Porn and more...

Monday, October 4, 2010

How come I cant seem to find a guy to get it on with ?

This is from craigslist.com and thought how silly of an Ad to take notice...especially about not interested in Asian/Indian... No wonder no ones reply to his ad. This ad would be consider ridiculous if the person is actually an Asian/Indian.

Im new to this site, this would be my 3rd time posting and Im kind of amazed that a hottie like me cant get a real person to connect with ?


I left my options wide open (muscular to average to beefy) and open to all ethnicities except asian/indian (just preference) but everytime someone responds either they're not my type (HAPPENS SOME OF THE TIME) or if they are my type they dont get back !

Im aware there are a lot of fakes, game players, guys who jerk off to pictures and have no intention on meeting up.. but seriously.. is this website that trashy? Give me some experience youve had or something? I find no luck here at all !

About me now: athletic, mid twenties, good looking and moderately hairy. Im not part of the scene, im very masc and more of a bottom and not hung up on age too much.

So... ?

Friday, October 1, 2010

Osaka Bathhouse

Memories of Japan, not the country but the saunas and hot springs with many naked men around. One came to mind, the place is call Hokuoukan. If Babylon Bangkok is the ultimate men's club in Asia, Hokuoukan runs a close second. This popular sauna welcomes well-behaved non-Japanese and the crowd, mostly men in their 30s and 40s, is friendly indeed. Bring your passport (in case there are any questions about your age) and leave any large luggage or bags in a coin locker at the train station (sauna lockers are only large enough for a backpack and your clothing).

The other place for Asian men is Daikachi....hmmmm



















Monday, September 20, 2010

Missed Connection

Hey guys! Thank you all for attending out Sept.16 Asian Bathhouse Event Nite at Spa Xcess. We came across a missed connection on Craigslist.com.

met u at Spa X Asian night on 16Sep
I am the tall Chinese guy there, U are the cute CBC guy and we had some fun - u gave me your email (hotmail) try to send u email but bounce back - really like to connect with you again,, so somehoe u see this email, shoot me a msg . Thanks

Keep checking out our blog for our next event in October " Bondage Halloween"

Friday, August 20, 2010

Sep 16 is Asian Bathhouse Night!

Hey guys!

Next Asian Bathhouse Night is on Sep 16, 2010 at Spa Excess.




















We will have fun workshops and games!
Of course, with popular Sea Salt Scrub massage as well.

Join us at 8:00pm and the party will go on until 11:00pm.

There will be on-site testing as well from Hassle Free Clinic.
You can get tested for HIV and Syphilis at Spa Excess at 8:00pm-11:00pm.

Get the coupon and come have fun!





















See you soon!

My Fantasy - 23

Ok, we came across this ad on craigslist.com and thought that we should share this fun posting.



I'm kinky 23yo Asian who like to explore and try new things.
There are so many things I want to try and things I enjoy.
Here are list of scenes I'd like to experience myself, if you're interested in doing one of them or more, don't hesitate to hit me up.
There are other things I'm into but unless you're into messy fun...I guess it's not worth listing here...if you're into messy fun, just let me know.

1) Bukkake
While surrounded by guys(below 30 years old), I want to be cum covered.
I could be either sit down at the centre, lying down, or tied down.
The more guys there are, more cum you dump on my body, the better the session it is.

2) Cum Control
This could be either for one time session or weeks thing.
For either one, I want to be tied down, so I won't have control over it myself.
It can be done with tickling too.

For one time session, I want to be edged straight for couple of hours.
It can be done with just hands, oral, or by gadgets.
The only way I'm allowed to cum is that my cock can't stand any more of stimulation that it pops semen without warning.
As for the price of cumming, my cock gets intense work, especially on the head.

For weeks session, I want to be edged everyday, at least for an hour, without being allowed to cum.
Said that, for this particular activity, I'll eventually need someone who can host me everyday/very often and either live very close to my area or can pick me up.
At the end of each session, my cock is locked with chastity device.
Then at the end of 2 or 3 weeks, my cock gets straight 3+ hours of cock stimulation and edging, then finally allowed to cum, though
the price for it is to get intense glans massage on my super-sensitive knob (polishing the apple), and forced to ejaculate couple of more cums.

3) Gunge
Pour slimy stuffs on my body

4) Intricate Bondage
I attached pics so you can get better idea

5) Sniffing on raunchy gears
I want to sniff on some well used gears by athletic jocks
The more sweaty, smelly, the better it is

OK, said that, here's my stats and what I expect from you

Me:
23
Asian
5'2, 101lb
slim
5'' uncut

You:
29 or under for bukakke, other than that, age doesn't matter
prefer athletic or slim build but it's not fixed
open minded and have patience
group is +
can always host within ttc working area, on either dt, scarborough, yonge & finch area unless you can pick me up(since i can't host, i need you to be)

Below are the common sense needed when replying ad, but I have seen about half of reply lacks the common sense so...
When you send me mail, please include your minimum stats (including your 'ethnic background', 'age', 'height', 'weight'), what are you into, what do you want to try from above, etc.
You don't need to attach your pic, but don't ask mine 1st since you're the one who's replying to my ad (I'll just block your address if you do).
If you want mine, send yours, simple as that.
My stats are up there, so if you ask about my stats, I can clearly see you haven't actually read my profile(unless you want to ask what's not up there), so I'll need to block you as well.
Other than that, I guess it should be fine...oh, if you're currently busy, and you know you can't set up meeting within 2 weeks or so, don't bother, you can send it when you're available or not send at all.
For the last, please remember which ad you replied to, thank you.

Thursday, July 29, 2010

Aug 19 is Asian Bathhouse Night: 4th Anniversary Edition

Hey Guys!

Did you know that Asian bathhouse night has been established for 4 years now.
We could have never achieve this without all of your support.
We would like to say thank you.

To celebrate our accomplishment, we are having an Asian Bathhouse Night: 4th Anniversary Edition on August 19th, Thursday, 8:00pm - 11:00pm.




















Come and join us for a hot night!

More details will be posted soon, so don't forget to check here.

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Open Relationships

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Wednesday, July 14, 2010

Sex Toy


The sex toy that can jerk you off without you using your hand. This "handy dandy" toy comes from Japan and we don't know how much it cost...

Thursday, July 8, 2010

Guilty Pleasure

Ever wonder what would happen when you fall asleep beside a cute guy?

Penis Lock


Want to know how to protect yourself or your boyfriend from masturbating or cheating? Get a penis lock....You can still pee..

Wednesday, June 30, 2010

Tomorrow Asian Bathhouse Nite

Ok BOys.....Tomorrow @ Spa Xcess 105 Carlton St. is our Pride Party Bathhouse NIte! Please come and support for you regulars, and if this is your first time or curious about it what is the Asian Bathhouse NIte? Contact us at 416-963-4300 Meza @ ext. 234. Richared # 235 or Daniel #236.

So see you there tomorrow! 8 pm till 11 pm.

Tuesday, June 8, 2010

Asian Bathhouse Event

PRIDE PARTY ASIAN NITE

Guys, tell all your friends about this special events on July 1st.
Check us out!




















For 50% off locker to Spa Xcess that nite from 8pm
download this coupon and show it at the door.

Tuesday, June 1, 2010

Bathhouse Etiquette

to do whatever they want. A place to get sex 24/7, like a 24-hour convenience store. Come to think of it, the Baths are like a supermarket. You can shop for whatever you are into. You have Latinos, Twinks, Bears, Chubs, Asians, Blacks, whatever type of guy you are interested in, you will surely find in a Bathhouse. There is something for everyone at the baths, much more than in the bar or club scene. As you will read in my stories, I have seen some weird combinations at the baths over the years.

There are two myths about a Bathhouse. #1, only dirty old men go to the baths. #2, only gorgeous men get lucky at the baths. Neither is true. As I have mentioned at the beginning, there is something for everyone. Sometimes, men use the baths to try and find a type (Asian, Chub, Bear, etc.) they cannot find anywhere else.

The rules are very simple; a bathhouse is usually located in a side street or out of the way neighborhood. Most of the time, there is no sign on the door. You walk in and see a cashier located behind a protective window. On a wall will be a list of prices to purchase either a room or a locker. A room will give you privacy. If you get a locker, cheaper than a room, you have no place for privacy (in case you meet a cute guy!). Most places will give you the option of locking up your valuables (watch, wallet, jewelry) in their safe. Once you pay, the cashier will buzz you in and you open the door. The door will automatically shut behind you. There is no chance of strangers walking in by accident.

Depending on where you live, a membership maybe required upon entering a bathhouse. The reason? According to some state laws, a bathhouse can only operate as a private men's club, hence the need for every customer to have a membership. While some bathhouses may only need you to fill out some information on a card, other bathhouses may request Photo ID to be provided upon purchase of a membership. If you are closeted or married, there is no need to worry about having your personal information leaked, or having your identity stolen.

Bathhouses need customers to be profitable. How would they be able to keep customers if they leak personal information? Trust me, bathhouses are very discreet when it comes to keeping membership information confidential, so you have nothing to worry about. The good news is that memberships may also give the customer special deals or huge discounts, if he plans on making multiple visits to the baths. After years of going to my friendly bathhouse I have recently purchased a membership, to save money since I go three times a week. In short, every bathhouse does not requires a membership, but be prepared if your local bathhouse does.

Once you get in, you take off all your clothes, place the towel around your waist, and then go cruise. You should take a shower before you cruise. That way you are nice and fresh for whomever you encounter. Then after the deed is done, take a shower afterwards. This way you can re-fresh yourself for the next guy you find. For some, it is not uncommon to take three to five showers in one visit! That is how many times some guy's gets lucky at the baths. Now some men are quite paranoid about foot fungus, so they bring slippers or sandals (Read Accessories to learn more about what to wear at a Bathhouse).

A bathhouse consists of dozens rooms, all lined up among a maze of hallways. You spend most of your time walking the halls looking for a score. Everyone knows why each other are there. Men are lying in their rooms seeing what passes by them. Or they are standing in the hallways or lounging around seeing what is walking about. Everybody is cruising everybody. There is even a bulletin board for people to advertise themselves. For example: "Room 218, submissive bottom, shoot your load inside me." The board has dozens of messages like that.

Most places will have a sauna and/or steam room. Some even have a whirlpool or an outdoor or indoor pool. There are showers to clean up, and porno rooms to pass the time. Condom are available free of charge (usually located at the front desk) but lube is going to cost you. Every bathhouse has some sort of snack bar and a pay phone. In addition there is a lounge area, where you can sit and read the gay magazines (Advocate, Genre, etc.) or watch television.

Basically, you will know if someone likes you. You make eye contact. If he makes eye contact and you make eye contact, well you know what will happen next. Some guy's will not make eye contact, and even look away. You cannot take it personally. That is the biggest rule at the baths (although it is still hard for me to digest). Sometimes touching is a good communication tool. If you see someone across the room, you may want to stroke your dick, play with your nipples or even wet your lips with you tongue. If you are sitting near someone, you may want to try playing footsies or reaching over and pinching his nipple. If you are passing by someone in the hallway, you may want to have your hand brush against him. Some of the older guy's will actually be bold enough and grab a guy ' s crotch! If he turns or pushes you away, just smile and walk away. Do not prolong the agony of trying to create something that is not going to happen. He is not interested.

If someone approaches you that are not up to your standards, be gentle in turning him down. Remember how you would want to be treated, as we have all been shot down at one time or another. I usually say, "I am just walking around, getting a feel for the place." Or if you want to be direct say, "I am not interested." Do not say, "Get out of my face". That is rude. Although you will encounter some guys who will say that. If someone turns you down, accept it gracefully and move on. Do not stalk the person and hang around outside his room. It makes him uncomfortable and makes you look like a fool. Believe me, everybody is observing everyone. By stalking someone who has no interest in you, you may be missing out on someone else.

Souce: http://bathhouseblues.com

BKK Hot Spot

Chakran - Bathhouse in Thailand for Asian men.

Babylon's main competition, Chakran is known for its luxurious interior and well-equipped multi-story sauna complex with indoor pool, jacuzzi, spa and steam room, gym, mini theatre, café, cruising corridors, karaoke areas and other facilities. Particularly popular with Thais and Asian tourists. Admission is 230 baht Monday to Thursday, 250 baht Friday to Sunday.





Thursday, May 27, 2010

Thinking of Renting?

We don't know if the guy is looking for a long stable roommate to help pays for the bills or someone he can sneak into their room at nite for a quick fix? Hmmm " Bottom beware" ... tempting but some of us like our sleep and the comfort of freedom.
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I am an Asian top seek a roommate. I am chinese + japanese mixed. Attached herewith my pictures - smile, eyes body and cock. I prefer top roommate because I am an active top. I don't want end up taking advantage to fucking you. Feel bad if I do so. For a top roommate, at least you are safe to live with me. I attached my cock's picture is to warn bottom guys, how can you control your emotion with my juicy and strong cock? For your safety reason, I would think you will be in your best interest not sharing a room with me.

I am doing my CGA - Certified General Accountants program. Almost completed Level 3. I don't smoke and take drug. Social drinker. I expect the same. You can take guy back to fuck even with my present, I don't mind. Expect the same.

I welcome anyone to apply with your picture, information and stats. International students are welcome. Age and race are not the issue include sexual orientation.

Wednesday, April 28, 2010

Craigslist 's crimes

Cruising on the internet can be fun, exciting and..... did we mention unsafe? here are some of the top 5 crimes that was reported.

California cops recently snagged Angel Pena Ayala, a 24-year-old felon who used Craigslist to rob gay victims at gunpoint. And it reminded us that Craigslist's M4M section is not only a good place for "RAW BB BTTMS ISO GROUP LOADZ." It's also a nifty place for murderers, child rapists, celebrity fakes and pranksters looking to embarrass their straight co-workers. Doing away with "erotic services" hasn't stopped Craigslist criminals. Here are five recent heinous homo CL stories — modern day fables to give you digital masturbators some friendly advice.

1. THE STABBING SATANIST

WTF HAPPENED?: When WABC Radio Reporter George Weber posted an ad looking for "violent sex", he met Satanic 16-year-old knife fetishist John Katehis. Weber wanted to pay Katehis $60 to smother him with a pillow. But instead, Katehis tied Weber's ankles with duct tape and stabbed Weber 50 times in the neck and body.

LESSONS LEARNED: If Weber had checked out Katehis' MySpace page before inviting him over, he might have seen his creepy-ass knife collection and friendly warning, "If you disrespect me then I will fucking break your neck."

And remember, statuatory rape laws exist for the good of both children and adults. Sixteen-year-olds make horrible lovers, under any circumstances.

Thursday, April 8, 2010

Asian Bathhouse Night

Asian Bathhouse Night is EVERY THIRD THURSDAY at Spa Excess 105 Carlton Street!

Join us at the next Asian Bathhouse Night on the 15th April at Spa Excess 8 - 11pm. We are going to have fun interactive workshops on sex and sexual health!





Monday, April 5, 2010

A Threesome with a couple?

Did you ever encounter a couple who goes to the bathhouse together and notice that they are seeking a third?

Did you ever wonder what it would be like to have a threesome with a couple? Or you have been invited to join a threesome by a couple?

Well, if you are thinking to get involve in such activity and wants to know how to do it 'right', read this fun and entertaining article below by Alvin Tan from Fridae.com


Threesome with a twosome

by Alvin Tan

Fridae's resident expert on outrageous sexual behavior, Alvin Tan, explores the issue of sex with a couple and offers some rules of conduct when engaging in a threesome with a twosome.

Just last weekend, I was posing at the local gay bar with my eyes straining ever so wide to achieve that virginal look - when I found myself at the receiving end of an indecent proposal.
While anyone would think that a flawless goddess such as myself would have long been used to free offers of gratuitous sex from attractive gay men, I was nonetheless rendered speechless on this occasion (no, I was not choking on an ice cube).

The reason is simple. For the first time in my limited homo sexperience (just in case my partner is reading this), I was invited to have sex with a couple (cue winsome blush on my chiseled cheeks).

With "open" relationships between gay men getting increasingly commonplace these days, you never know when you'll find yourself invited - like yours truly - to a menage-a-trois (French for threesome for the less linguistically gifted amongst Fridae's readers).

As the fresh piece of meat in an otherwise "stale" relationship, you'll be regarded with the interest and fascination usually reserved for the re-appearance of the Dodo bird. In most cases, you may even find yourself treated like visiting royalty and having your every sexual whims and fancies attentively attended to.

Although sex with a couple entails more bodies, more heat and more excitement, a sexual liaison with a couple can also prove to be extremely hazardous to one's self-esteem, health and reputation.

So unless you're into double trouble or enjoy being on the receiving end of a tag-team effort to boot you out of the house (or worse, the gay community), you would do well to bear in mind Fridae's Five Commandments - before, when and after having sex with a gay couple.

Commandment No. 1: No Playing Favourites
It's inevitable. You're going to be more attracted to one of the guys than the other. But unfortunately, you can't play favourites. Still if you're the homo-equivalent of the Oscar winning Meryl Streep and can convincingly feign equal interest, then this would not pose a problem and you can skip to Commandment Number Two. But if you lack the formidable acting prowess of the divine Ms Streep, then it's best to keep both your eyes closed. That way, you won't know who you are deep-throating or whose mouth is having a go at your boner with the suction power of an industrial strength vacuum cleaner and better yet, you'll be way past caring.

Commandment No. 2: No Sleepover Unless
As a general rule, you should never sleep over at the couple's "Den of Perpetual Lust" if you're not invited - no matter how weak your knees are or how utterly exhausted you are. This is pure commonsense since you never know the kind of drama that might erupt the morning after. Trust me, you don't want to be running out butt naked into the streets clutching your clothes while the couple bicker and fight like Alexis Colby and Krystle Carrington on Dynasty.

However, if they do ask you to stay and you're quite sure you want to, do not, I repeat, do not conveniently position yourself between the couple and start snoring away - let them decide who sleeps where. Being a courteous cocksman with impeccable bedside manners will definitely earn you a return invite.

Commandment No. 3: Start Multitasking
Time to earn your Ms Versatility Title honey! If you think sex with a single guy is a lot of work, imagine sex with two guys. With three pairs of hands, three pairs of lips, three throbbing appendages and three gaping butts, you would do well to prepare yourself for lots of manual, oral and anal action - often all at the same time.

Unless you can multitask effectively, you may find yourself overwhelmed and labeled an inadequate lover. And if that leaks out to the gay grapevine, you might never be able to date again without an appearance on Extreme Makeover. So in the event if your hands, mouth and butt are otherwise engaged, put your imagination to good use and start experimenting with your nostril(s), armpit(s) and toe(s).

Commandment No. 4: Don't Expect LTR
For the last time, sex is sex - especially if it's sex with a couple. So don't even entertain the possibility of a Long Term Relationship with one or both of the aforementioned couple. First of all, an invitation to sex with a couple does not mean that they are looking for a permanent three-way arrangement. If you allow yourself to fall in love with either or both of them and your affections are not reciprocated, then you'll be no better than a "Cling-On" with Velcro-like abilities.

Secondly, even if they are willing to make the arrangement long-term, you'll be labeled as the home-breaking whore should anything untoward happen to their relationship - even if it's not your fault. Finally, you might find yourself competing for the affections of one of them with the other partner and things might just turn ugly. Trust me, it's not worth the effort as well as the mental and emotional anguish.

Commandment No. 5: Never Get Jealous
It's possible that the couple may be getting off on each other so intensely that they'll forget you're even in the room. If you find yourself getting left out or neglected (you poor thing!), you should never get jealous - after all, you're the third party here. Keep your cool and try to work your way into the action.

Conversely, you may have to deal with the situation where one partner does a Hulk and turns into the green-eyed monster because you or the other partner paid too much attention to each other. If such an unfortunate situation should ever arise, you may wish to pacify the jealous partner by drawing him back into the action (at least you'll earn his gratitude) or if the scene turns ugly, be ever so prepared to do a flash and run for the nearest exit.

With that, you're now ready for your tumble in the twin-sized sack.

Editor's Note: Fridae is NOT responsible for the outcomes, usually tragic, of gay readers who follow Alvin Tan's outrageous instructions to the T).

Tuesday, March 23, 2010

BB

What does BB mean? We are sure it is not Bed and Breakfast but rather a common term that is being use in the cyber world which means "bareback" ( fucking without condom).

here is another ad that stick out to us.

Fucking without fear - 26

Asian looking to be bb ducked by a dude. Prefer white or euro dudes. No pic, no response. Don't care for cock picks.

This is a pretty high risk of contracting HIV and other sexual transmitted infections if you ask us.

Wednesday, March 17, 2010

Asian bttm 4 asian vers/tops - 29 (GTA)

Once in awhile we like to show you some of the hottest Ads on the net and discuss some of the things or issues that might we might find to be offensive, wrong information, and or just down right hot!

here is one...

Feeling horny and looking to meet with other fit, asian tops who can host. I'm an asian bottom
looking to meet now or later on tonight for some suck and f*&k action. Love to lick and suck asian cock, while you moan
from intense pleasure. Then I 'd show you how I can f$#k a nice hard prick from sitting on top. I'm 5'6 141, slim built, smooth, and horny.
I have a smooth , bubble ass. You must host, as I can only drive to your place. Or we can get a room at
a bath-house. Let me know if your interested, by sending me a reply with your stats, and possibly a pic. Or we can
contacts on MSN. - Thanks

Locals, visitors, everyone is welcome to reply.

in this case, it is just hot.. no issues.. unless you can comment on it...

Monday, March 15, 2010

Making The Connection

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Welcome

Hi everyone!
This is something new and exciting for the Asian Bathhouse Blog! We will let you bypass about all the details that happened in the bathhouse. Each month, we will feature daily updates from our contributors their personal experiences during Asian Bathhouse Event and their personal normal time.

So if you are curious and want to know what life is like in the bathhouse, without being there, log in and check us out!

Thanks and we welcome comments.

Bathhouse Volunteers

Next Bathhouse Event


Thursday March 18, 2010

Asian Bathhouse Nite
8-11 pm
Spa Excess - 105 Carlton St. East of Church St.

This is an ACAS event that provide fun and interactive information on HIV and Sexual Transmitted Infections in the bathhouse.

For more information and the 50% off locker coupon: 416.963-4300 ext 234